The strange thing about a rented flat is how long it can take to feel like yours. The boxes are unpacked in a weekend. The pictures go up in a month, once you have worked out what the landlord will tolerate. And then a year later you still walk in and feel, faintly, like a guest. People who move often, for work or study or the usual reasons, learn that the fix is not furniture. It is a handful of small things you do every day, in the same way, until the place recognizes you.
The first ten minutes home
Most of what a home feels like is decided in the first ten minutes after you walk in. Decide what those minutes are and repeat them. Shoes off in the same spot. Keys in the same bowl. One lamp on before anything else, always the same lamp. It sounds trivial. It is not.
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