By Attorney Renee Bauer
It’s that special time of year again, but for many divorced couples, the holidays can mean arguments, miscommunication, and anger. You have the opportunity to spare your child the pain of conflict with some planning and compromise.
Because what does it look like otherwise?
In my 20+ years as a divorce attorney and representing children in custody cases, I’ve seen children attend holiday shows two nights in a row and never tell the other parent that they have already seen it. The child pretends it is a new experience for them to avoid causing an argument between her parents or hurt feelings. I’ve also seen gifts duplicated and a child has to feign excitement when he opens the repeat gift. I’ve seen arguments ensue because one parent purchased something the other parent didn’t approve of (think, cell phone). I’ve seen children have to eat two dinners on Christmas Eve.
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